Building Your Tribe

Written By: Free The Vision

Today, we're diving into a topic that's as vital as getting the kids ready when you’re already running 15 minutes late  – building a supportive village around your intentional parenting style. As Black parents, we know the importance of coming together, sharing experiences, and the impact of our journey through parenthood. So, let's jump in and have a necessary chat about how to create your parenting village with all the love, laughter, and support it deserves.

1. Squad Goals: Curating Your Parenting Crew

If you ever find yourself speaking to specific friends about your parenting experience, and notice their advice is some that you adopt - consider bringing them into your parenting squad. Understandably as a parent trusting your child with anyone is one of the hardest things to do, but through your discernment find spaces where you notice your child thriving the most and cultivate those relationships as support grounds for your family.

2. Parent's Night Out: Organize Fun and Supportive Gatherings

Host regular parents' nights out or in, where you can relax, chat, and swap stories. These gatherings are the perfect opportunity to unwind, share your successes and challenges, and remind yourself that you're not alone in this adventure. Plus, this can serve as an opportunity to build time with the children and their tribe of support. Connection is learned through healthy displays of communication. 

3. Co-Parenting Convo: Communicate and Collaborate

For those co-parenting, whether in the same home or separately, open and honest communication is key. Have regular check-ins to ensure you're on the same page with your parenting style and goals. It's a chance to celebrate the wins and make necessary adjustments together.

4. Be a Diverse Village: Embrace  Parenting Styles

In our village, we celebrate diversity, and that includes different parenting styles. Whether you're a single parent, a couple, or navigating co-parenting, respect and embrace each other's choices. Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all in parenting, and honestly each child might need a unique structure that helps support them.  That's what makes a village so rich and vibrant, the ability to nurture the strengths and unite to heal the weaknesses within it. 

In the end, your parenting village is your sanctuary, your cheerleaders, and your lifeline. It's a place where laughter echoes, tears are wiped away, and children grow knowing they are cherished by an entire community.