And if you have children, you know how important it is to feed their imagination through festive activities like trimming the tree or leaving cookies for Santa. Whatever your beliefs, practices, or religion, the end of the year is about reflection and spending quality time with loved ones.

Family can be biological, chosen, or blended. According to ParentClassesOnline.com, “Approximately 15,086,000 children under the age of 18 in the United States live exclusively with their mothers.” And “Approximately 3,054,000 children under the age of 18 in the United States live exclusively with their fathers.”

While the majority of children live with mom, that doesn’t mean dad isn’t present (or vice versa). That’s where coparenting comes in.

“All of the research and statistics overwhelmingly demonstrate that children need both parents fully engaged in their upbringing and lives,” explained Dr. Joel N. Myers, founder of Dads’ Resource Center.

If your family falls in that bracket, it’s essential to practice healthy coparenting behavior over the holidays.

“The hardest part about coparenting during holidays is splitting time to ensure the child can see both sides,” explained Alyssa Bigbee, 36. “Dad gets Thanksgiving and I get Christmas, which gets tough because sometimes I’ll have things I want to do and vice versa. But that’s where communication comes into play where we will try to work out splitting times. One year I had Christmas morning and he had Christmas evening.”

She added, “A big component to co-parenting to me has been communication and compromise. After divorcing it was important for us to both recognize we both want the best for our child—we just needed to be clear on how we each defined that and move from there.”

For Mattie Reynolds, 34, and mom of two, effective co-parenting is about “communication, understanding, and respect.”

What has been a key component to co-parenting for you?
It’s not about us or our feelings; it’s about what gives our children stability, love, and the best version of family—even though we’re no longer together. Healthy co-parenting means letting go of ego and focusing on teamwork. Our shared goal has always been to raise grounded, joyful, loved kids who feel connected to both sides of their family.

What’s the hardest part about co-parenting during the holidays?
Honestly? Figuring out who’s getting them! Ha! It’s always a balancing act of time, travel, and traditions. For the most part, they’re with me during Thanksgiving and I go all out. I cook a full feast that blends my West African roots with Southern comfort: jollof rice, cornbread dressing, mac and cheese, fried plantains, greens, and sweet potato pie. Thanksgiving is my love language—our time to slow down, laugh, and just be present.

Christmas is where we alternate. One year they wake up with me, and the next with their dad. His family is Afro Panamanian and African American, and they celebrate with such joy—matching pajamas, soulful and reggae music playing, gifts being opened all together, and the smell of good food everywhere. My side brings that West African flair—bold flavors, Afrobeats/Coupé-Décalé, prayer, and a deep sense of gratitude.

Last year the kids spent Christmas Eve and morning with me, then joined their dad later in the day for his family’s celebration. It’s a rich cultural blend, and I love that our children get to experience both worlds.

What advice would you give to other co-parents about co-parenting during the holidays?
Stay focused on what makes the holidays feel special for your kids. It’s not about keeping score—it’s about creating peace and joy. Communicate early, stay flexible, and remember that the best gift you can give your children is harmony between their parents. I’ll give him his credit—he’s the master of the calendar. He’ll usually share his plans months in advance, and honestly, that level of organization helps everything go smoother.

What is one major tip you’d give to someone else about co-parenting?
Lead with grace. You can’t control what the other parent does, but you can control your peace. Choose calm over chaos, and keep your children’s emotional well-being front and center. Co-parenting isn’t about perfection—it’s about partnership in purpose. When you lead with love and maturity, your kids will always feel secure, no matter how the structure of your family looks.

 
And just like that, the holidays are upon us. ’Tis the season for family gatherings, gift giving, and mouth-watering feasts. The holidays are a reminder to be thankful for family, friends, and the blessings over the year while giving back to spread that joy.

And if you have children, you know how important it is to feed their imagination through festive activities like trimming the tree or leaving cookies for Santa. Whatever your beliefs, practices, or religion, the end of the year is about reflection and spending quality time with loved ones.

Family can be biological, chosen, or blended. According to ParentClassesOnline.com, “Approximately 15,086,000 children under the age of 18 in the United States live exclusively with their mothers.” And “Approximately 3,054,000 children under the age of 18 in the United States live exclusively with their fathers.”

While the majority of children live with mom, that doesn’t mean dad isn’t present (or vice versa). That’s where coparenting comes in.

“All of the research and statistics overwhelmingly demonstrate that children need both parents fully engaged in their upbringing and lives,” explained Dr. Joel N. Myers, founder of Dads’ Resource Center.

If your family falls in that bracket, it’s essential to practice healthy coparenting behavior over the holidays.

“The hardest part about coparenting during holidays is splitting time to ensure the child can see both sides,” explained Alyssa Bigbee, 36. “Dad gets Thanksgiving and I get Christmas, which gets tough because sometimes I’ll have things I want to do and vice versa. But that’s where communication comes into play where we will try to work out splitting times. One year I had Christmas morning and he had Christmas evening.”

She added, “A big component to co-parenting to me has been communication and compromise. After divorcing it was important for us to both recognize we both want the best for our child—we just needed to be clear on how we each defined that and move from there.”

For Mattie Reynolds, 34, and mom of two, effective co-parenting is about “communication, understanding, and respect.”

What has been a key component to co-parenting for you?
It’s not about us or our feelings; it’s about what gives our children stability, love, and the best version of family—even though we’re no longer together. Healthy co-parenting means letting go of ego and focusing on teamwork. Our shared goal has always been to raise grounded, joyful, loved kids who feel connected to both sides of their family.

What’s the hardest part about co-parenting during the holidays?
Honestly? Figuring out who’s getting them! Ha! It’s always a balancing act of time, travel, and traditions. For the most part, they’re with me during Thanksgiving and I go all out. I cook a full feast that blends my West African roots with Southern comfort: jollof rice, cornbread dressing, mac and cheese, fried plantains, greens, and sweet potato pie. Thanksgiving is my love language—our time to slow down, laugh, and just be present.

Christmas is where we alternate. One year they wake up with me, and the next with their dad. His family is Afro Panamanian and African American, and they celebrate with such joy—matching pajamas, soulful and reggae music playing, gifts being opened all together, and the smell of good food everywhere. My side brings that West African flair—bold flavors, Afrobeats/Coupé-Décalé, prayer, and a deep sense of gratitude.

Last year the kids spent Christmas Eve and morning with me, then joined their dad later in the day for his family’s celebration. It’s a rich cultural blend, and I love that our children get to experience both worlds.

What advice would you give to other co-parents about co-parenting during the holidays?
Stay focused on what makes the holidays feel special for your kids. It’s not about keeping score—it’s about creating peace and joy. Communicate early, stay flexible, and remember that the best gift you can give your children is harmony between their parents. I’ll give him his credit—he’s the master of the calendar. He’ll usually share his plans months in advance, and honestly, that level of organization helps everything go smoother.

What is one major tip you’d give to someone else about co-parenting?
Lead with grace. You can’t control what the other parent does, but you can control your peace. Choose calm over chaos, and keep your children’s emotional well-being front and center. Co-parenting isn’t about perfection—it’s about partnership in purpose. When you lead with love and maturity, your kids will always feel secure, no matter how the structure of your family looks.

Halloween is upon us, which means costumes, candy, and fun spooky season décor that causes jump scares.

Long gone are the days when Halloween costumes looked like ghosts made of white bed sheets with holes for eye sockets. Social media has allowed creative costumes to flood our timelines—and thanks to TikTok, the options are endless. From crafty UFOs to the viral headless costume that’s a costume contest contender, here are some DIY costume ideas and the items from Amazon you need to make them happen.

Long gone are the days when Halloween costumes looked like ghosts made of white bed sheets with holes for eye sockets. Social media has allowed creative costumes to flood our timelines—and thanks to TikTok, the options are endless. From crafty UFOs to the viral headless costume that’s a costume contest contender, here are some DIY costume ideas and the items from Amazon you need to make them happen.

The Headless Costume

The Headless Costume

For this head-turning costume, you’ll need a few easy-to-find items. Use a hanger or mannequin torso to create structure. With tape, secure the torso to your child using a backpack for support. Stuff the sleeves of an old button-up shirt with flesh-colored stockings and gloves to create realistic arms. Leave your child’s head poking through the middle shirt buttons, and secure a plate around their neck to create the headless illusion.

For this head-turning costume, you’ll need a few easy-to-find items. Use a hanger or mannequin torso to create structure. With tape, secure the torso to your child using a backpack for support. Stuff the sleeves of an old button-up shirt with flesh-colored stockings and gloves to create realistic arms. Leave your child’s head poking through the middle shirt buttons, and secure a plate around their neck to create the headless illusion.

Cup of Noodles

Cup of Noodles

Turn your favorite comfort food into your child’s DIY costume this year. Cut the bottom out of a white garbage can. Print or use a Cricut machine to create the Maruchan Cup of Noodles logo. Affix the logo to the front of the can using Mod Podge for a seamless look. Secure the can with suspenders.

Turn your favorite comfort food into your child’s DIY costume this year. Cut the bottom out of a white garbage can. Print or use a Cricut machine to create the Maruchan Cup of Noodles logo. Affix the logo to the front of the can using Mod Podge for a seamless look. Secure the can with suspenders.

UFO

UFO

Ready to win the Halloween costume party this year? The viral DIY UFO costume is one of this year’s hottest. Start with a clear bubble umbrella to use as the top of your UFO. Spray silver paint over cardboard box strips taped together to form side panels. Add fringe curtain to recreate flowing tentacles. Finish with RGB color-changing lights wrapped around the umbrella.

Ready to win the Halloween costume party this year? The viral DIY UFO costume is one of this year’s hottest. Start with a clear bubble umbrella to use as the top of your UFO. Spray silver paint over cardboard box strips taped together to form side panels. Add fringe curtain to recreate flowing tentacles. Finish with RGB color-changing lights wrapped around the umbrella.

A Bowl of Cereal

A Bowl of Cereal

Don’t throw away that old gallon of milk just yet—you’ll need it to create this unique costume. Start by making cereal pieces using colorful pool noodles cut into uniform circles. Affix a cleaned-out milk jug to a white hat on your child’s head. Use paper towels to simulate spilling milk. Cut the bottom out of a white garbage can and cover it in white tulle to create the shape of a bowl, then add makeshift suspenders to hold it up.

Don’t throw away that old gallon of milk just yet—you’ll need it to create this unique costume. Start by making cereal pieces using colorful pool noodles cut into uniform circles. Affix a cleaned-out milk jug to a white hat on your child’s head. Use paper towels to simulate spilling milk. Cut the bottom out of a white garbage can and cover it in white tulle to create the shape of a bowl, then add makeshift suspenders to hold it up.

G.I. Joe

G.I. Joe

Atten-hut! Your child’s favorite little green toy is an easy DIY costume they’ll love making and wearing. Pick up a fake army belt, green spray paint, boots, and a camouflage set you don’t mind painting. Use green body paint to cover your little one’s neck and face. Create the plastic base board using foam board from your local Dollar Tree.

Atten-hut! Your child’s favorite little green toy is an easy DIY costume they’ll love making and wearing. Pick up a fake army belt, green spray paint, boots, and a camouflage set you don’t mind painting. Use green body paint to cover your little one’s neck and face. Create the plastic base board using foam board from your local Dollar Tree.

September is designated as both Baby Safety Month and National Infant Mortality Awareness Month—30 days dedicated to learning about preventative and life-saving measures. We’ve compiled five products that offer a sense of safety and support in the event of an emergency.

Owlet Dream Sock Baby Monitor

My daughter was born with a rare heart condition that affects her blood oxygen level. She spent six months in the hospital after birth, and every day I dreamed of the moment her father and I could take her home. But that joy also came with anxiety. How could she go from being monitored 24/7 by machines and medical professionals to being home, where anything could happen? I was so nervous. However, I found comfort in a few household products that helped soothe some of my fears.

September is designated as both Baby Safety Month and National Infant Mortality Awareness Month—30 days dedicated to learning about preventative and life-saving measures. We’ve compiled five products that offer a sense of safety and support in the event of an emergency.

Owlet Dream Sock Baby Monitor

One of the things I struggled with most after bringing my daughter home was sleeping. I had so much built-up anxiety, I didn’t even want to sleep because I didn’t want to miss anything. The Owlet Dream Sock monitors your infant or child’s pulse, blood oxygen level, wake patterns, and sleep trends using a soft sock sensor that connects to an easy-to-use app. I could check my child’s vitals from bed using this FDA-cleared smart monitor with live health readings and notifications. Peace of mind was well worth the $299 price.
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BabySense Baby Cam

One of the things I struggled with most after bringing my daughter home was sleeping. I had so much built-up anxiety, I didn’t even want to sleep because I didn’t want to miss anything. The Owlet Dream Sock monitors your infant or child’s pulse, blood oxygen level, wake patterns, and sleep trends using a soft sock sensor that connects to an easy-to-use app. I could check my child’s vitals from bed using this FDA-cleared smart monitor with live health readings and notifications. Peace of mind was well worth the $299 price.
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BabySense Baby Cam

Baby cams are essential when you have young children. The BabySense Baby Cam allows you to switch between two cameras or use a split-screen to monitor two rooms at once. It doesn’t rely on Wi-Fi, which is a major pro. It’s plug-and-go, making it great for travel—and we love a multifunctional product. The monitor is sturdy, which is key when dealing with an accident-prone toddler. This camera is both affordable and reliable, with breathing detection and safety alerts.
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Safety 1st Home Safeguarding Set – 80pc

Baby cams are essential when you have young children. The BabySense Baby Cam allows you to switch between two cameras or use a split-screen to monitor two rooms at once. It doesn’t rely on Wi-Fi, which is a major pro. It’s plug-and-go, making it great for travel—and we love a multifunctional product. The monitor is sturdy, which is key when dealing with an accident-prone toddler. This camera is both affordable and reliable, with breathing detection and safety alerts.
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Safety 1st Home Safeguarding Set – 80pc

You don’t realize how dangerous your own home is until you have a toddler turning stove knobs, opening cabinets, and finding sockets. The Safety 1st Home Safeguarding Set includes 80 pieces—doorknob covers, cabinet latches, side locks, and plug protectors—all for just $22. They’re easy to install and make a big difference.
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LifeVac Portable Suction Device

You don’t realize how dangerous your own home is until you have a toddler turning stove knobs, opening cabinets, and finding sockets. The Safety 1st Home Safeguarding Set includes 80 pieces—doorknob covers, cabinet latches, side locks, and plug protectors—all for just $22. They’re easy to install and make a big difference.
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LifeVac Portable Suction Device

Seventy-five percent of choking deaths occur in children under 3 years old, with food being the most common cause. The LifeVac Home Kit is a choking rescue device built for life-threatening emergencies. It works for both adults and children and has already saved many lives. It’s even become a standard tool for EMS and police.
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CPR LifeWrap

Seventy-five percent of choking deaths occur in children under 3 years old, with food being the most common cause. The LifeVac Home Kit is a choking rescue device built for life-threatening emergencies. It works for both adults and children and has already saved many lives. It’s even become a standard tool for EMS and police.
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CPR LifeWrap

One day, while watching Shark Tank, I saw Felicia Jackson present her invention—the CPR LifeWrap. She shared the harrowing story of how her son began choking on a piece of candy in the car. Though CPR certified, she froze in the moment. “I couldn’t react, as my son was dying,” she told Black Enterprise.
That terrifying experience led her to create the CPR LifeWrap: a disposable, assistive CPR device that includes step-by-step instructions, embossed hand placement guides, and a protective barrier to prevent fluid exchange during mouth-to-mouth resuscitation. Available in infant, child, and adult sizes, it’s also compatible with AED machines.
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One day, while watching Shark Tank, I saw Felicia Jackson present her invention—the CPR LifeWrap. She shared the harrowing story of how her son began choking on a piece of candy in the car. Though CPR certified, she froze in the moment. “I couldn’t react, as my son was dying,” she told Black Enterprise.
That terrifying experience led her to create the CPR LifeWrap: a disposable, assistive CPR device that includes step-by-step instructions, embossed hand placement guides, and a protective barrier to prevent fluid exchange during mouth-to-mouth resuscitation. Available in infant, child, and adult sizes, it’s also compatible with AED machines.
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It was more than an attack on America’s education system; it was a gut punch to longstanding laws that have been in place to protect our civil liberties. To further cripple the DE, Trump froze billions of dollars in vital grants and funding to schools. From initiatives to protect disabled children to protections against sex-based discrimination, the DE depends on money from the government to run programs that benefit both children and working parents who rely on extra school support. For Trump, it is another weapon in his arsenal to push his divisive agenda.

Kyndal Hargrow, proud mom of two, started in education 15 years ago. A former elementary school teacher turned principal and dean of culture, she says she feels “deep anger and frustration” with the current administration’s imposition on the DE.

Kyndal Hargrow, proud mom of two, started in education 15 years ago. A former elementary school teacher turned principal and dean of culture, she says she feels “deep anger and frustration” with the current administration’s imposition on the DE.

“It’s disheartening,” she says. “Especially when you recognize that these cuts directly impact the communities that are most underserved. This will impact Black and Brown students. It will impact low socioeconomic children and families. It impacts students with disabilities. It impacts students who are English language learners.”

“It’s disheartening,” she says. “Especially when you recognize that these cuts directly impact the communities that are most underserved. This will impact Black and Brown students. It will impact low socioeconomic children and families. It impacts students with disabilities. It impacts students who are English language learners.”

What does this mean for parents of school-age children or teens seeking higher education?

What does this mean for parents of school-age children or teens seeking higher education?

“It means we have to stay present and stay alert,” explains Hargrow. “I think the biggest thing for us as parents is to stay engaged, to talk with our kids. Ask what they’re learning in the classroom.”

“It means we have to stay present and stay alert,” explains Hargrow. “I think the biggest thing for us as parents is to stay engaged, to talk with our kids. Ask what they’re learning in the classroom.”

“The more that we can make sure that we’re present and involved as much as we can… I know a lot of us gotta work and pay the bills. But just getting that information directly from your child can make a world of a difference to know where there are gaps and where I might need to step in and fill in things,” she adds.

“The more that we can make sure that we’re present and involved as much as we can… I know a lot of us gotta work and pay the bills. But just getting that information directly from your child can make a world of a difference to know where there are gaps and where I might need to step in and fill in things,” she adds.

According to Hargrow, there’s power in parents putting their phone down for just 20 minutes to engage with their child. Asking basic questions is highly effective. Simple inquiries like asking what they’re thinking or how they’re feeling, to more critical thinking questions that push students to think about why things might be a certain way, are essential.

According to Hargrow, there’s power in parents putting their phone down for just 20 minutes to engage with their child. Asking basic questions is highly effective. Simple inquiries like asking what they’re thinking or how they’re feeling, to more critical thinking questions that push students to think about why things might be a certain way, are essential.

Hargrow also recommends tapping into free resources that are available, like visiting the local library. “There are things that don’t require money and ways that we can still have really powerful teachable moments just by being aware of what’s available and what resources we can tap into.”

Hargrow also recommends tapping into free resources that are available, like visiting the local library. “There are things that don’t require money and ways that we can still have really powerful teachable moments just by being aware of what’s available and what resources we can tap into.”

Technology is also a tool to help fill the gaps, but being aware of what your child is watching is essential to it being a gift and not a curse. “What our children are watching and what they’re engaging with—and how much of it they’re engaging with—can make or break how they learn technology.”

Technology is also a tool to help fill the gaps, but being aware of what your child is watching is essential to it being a gift and not a curse. “What our children are watching and what they’re engaging with—and how much of it they’re engaging with—can make or break how they learn technology.”

Sharing a gentle laugh, Hargrow jokes about taking her own back-to-school advice. As both a mom and career educator, she recommends introducing yourself to the teacher. “Ask the teacher what’s the best way to communicate with them. Is it texting, is it email, is it a phone call? And if I have questions, how do I best get answers to them?”

Sharing a gentle laugh, Hargrow jokes about taking her own back-to-school advice. As both a mom and career educator, she recommends introducing yourself to the teacher. “Ask the teacher what’s the best way to communicate with them. Is it texting, is it email, is it a phone call? And if I have questions, how do I best get answers to them?”

And vice versa, Hargrow has advice for educators trying to make a difference in their students’ lives.

And vice versa, Hargrow has advice for educators trying to make a difference in their students’ lives.

“I know all too well, both as an educator and as a school leader, how overwhelming it can be,” she adds. “I think in order for it to feel like a partnership and for us to work together—to really lean into the spirit of ‘it takes a village’—the more open the communication, the better. I think knowing that it goes both ways is huge.”

“I know all too well, both as an educator and as a school leader, how overwhelming it can be,” she adds. “I think in order for it to feel like a partnership and for us to work together—to really lean into the spirit of ‘it takes a village’—the more open the communication, the better. I think knowing that it goes both ways is huge.”

Whether you’re preparing a bath after a long day, or jamming out to your favorite tune while taking a drive, turning regular daily activities into self-care moments is essential to being a good parent. Mental health is important and if we don’t prioritize “me time” it’ll reflect in how we show up as partners and as parents. And with the kid’s home from school, finding solace at home will be instrumental over the summer.

As a mom of two, I like to turn my showers into an oasis. I light a candle, (I lock the door) and I break out my favorite lush products. I enjoy products that nourish my skin, scalp and being. As we get deeper into the warmer weather, choosing products that protect your melanin and bring you joy like sweet scents and blissful body butters are small joys that don’t cost much.

As a mom of two, I like to turn my showers into an oasis. I light a candle, (I lock the door) and I break out my favorite lush products. I enjoy products that nourish my skin, scalp and being. As we get deeper into the warmer weather, choosing products that protect your melanin and bring you joy like sweet scents and blissful body butters are small joys that don’t cost much.

From body scrubs to body balms that feel like hugs, here are five beauty products that help me relax, recharge and refocus. 

From body scrubs to body balms that feel like hugs, here are five beauty products that help me relax, recharge and refocus. 

Dove Body Scrub

Dove Body Scrub

The benefits of body scrubs are endless, but most-importantly massaging the body scrub during your shower routine can help increase circulation. In addition to exfoliating the skin and removing dead skin cells, scrubs leave the skin looking healthier, smoother and brighter. If you love Dove products like I do, their body scrubs come in a variety of delightful scents at an affordable price.

The benefits of body scrubs are endless, but most-importantly massaging the body scrub during your shower routine can help increase circulation. In addition to exfoliating the skin and removing dead skin cells, scrubs leave the skin looking healthier, smoother and brighter. If you love Dove products like I do, their body scrubs come in a variety of delightful scents at an affordable price.

“Dove Scrubs proprietary ¼ moisturizing cream infused in the formula, effectively exfoliates while nourishing skin, leaving skin feeling smooth after usage,” Toral Patel, Dove Scrubs Research and Development Lead told HelloBeautiful.com.

“Dove Scrubs proprietary ¼ moisturizing cream infused in the formula, effectively exfoliates while nourishing skin, leaving skin feeling smooth after usage,” Toral Patel, Dove Scrubs Research and Development Lead told HelloBeautiful.com.

Keys Soulcare

Keys Soulcare

Alicia Keys’ skincare brand Keys Soulcare offers a robust selection of products, but her Sage + Oat Milk Votive Candles are the perfect way to kick off “me time.” The calming scent helps set the scene while you quench your body with her Comforting Balm. It’s Alicia Keys’ favorite product for good reason.  “No BS, this is a serious favorite product for me!,” the Grammy Award-winning artist and mother said on the brand’s website. The main ingredient in this balm that feels like a warm hug, is avocado oil and camellia seed. 

Alicia Keys’ skincare brand Keys Soulcare offers a robust selection of products, but her Sage + Oat Milk Votive Candles are the perfect way to kick off “me time.” The calming scent helps set the scene while you quench your body with her Comforting Balm. It’s Alicia Keys’ favorite product for good reason.  “No BS, this is a serious favorite product for me!,” the Grammy Award-winning artist and mother said on the brand’s website. The main ingredient in this balm that feels like a warm hug, is avocado oil and camellia seed. 

“Camellia seed oil has been used for centuries, and it’s very nourishing for the skin due to the omega-6 fatty acids and antioxidants,” Dr. Snyder explains. “These along with avocado oil help revitalize the look of dull and dehydrated skin for dewiness.”

“Camellia seed oil has been used for centuries, and it’s very nourishing for the skin due to the omega-6 fatty acids and antioxidants,” Dr. Snyder explains. “These along with avocado oil help revitalize the look of dull and dehydrated skin for dewiness.”

Fenty Body Butter 

Fenty Body Butter 

Are you ready to smell Fenty Fresh? Rihanna’s Fenty Beauty doesn’t just sell revolutionary makeup, the brand sells products that leave you feeling and smelling good. Ri Ri’s Butta Drop Refill Whipped Oil Body Cream with Tropical Oils + Shea Butter is a customer favorite for a reason. Lathering up in this luxurious cream is a treat. Your skin will feel supple, smell sweet and smooth like the Bajan beauty herself.

Are you ready to smell Fenty Fresh? Rihanna’s Fenty Beauty doesn’t just sell revolutionary makeup, the brand sells products that leave you feeling and smelling good. Ri Ri’s Butta Drop Refill Whipped Oil Body Cream with Tropical Oils + Shea Butter is a customer favorite for a reason. Lathering up in this luxurious cream is a treat. Your skin will feel supple, smell sweet and smooth like the Bajan beauty herself.

Carol’s Daughter 

Carol’s Daughter 

Lisa Price started Carol’s Daughter in her kitchen and soon her products became a household name in the Black community. Known for moisture-rich hair conditioners and masks, Carol’s Daughter leaves your hair and scalp feeling taken care of. For Black women, it’s a love letter in a bottle to our kinks and curls. Carol’s Daughter was one of the original brands that helped us rethink “wash day” from a task to a ritual. Her “Goddess Strength” collection is like elixir to the hair. And when your crown is fixed, you can do anything.

Lisa Price started Carol’s Daughter in her kitchen and soon her products became a household name in the Black community. Known for moisture-rich hair conditioners and masks, Carol’s Daughter leaves your hair and scalp feeling taken care of. For Black women, it’s a love letter in a bottle to our kinks and curls. Carol’s Daughter was one of the original brands that helped us rethink “wash day” from a task to a ritual. Her “Goddess Strength” collection is like elixir to the hair. And when your crown is fixed, you can do anything.

Juliette Has A Gun- Miami Shake

Juliette Has A Gun- Miami Shake

Hearing, you smell good, is a compliment thqt just hits different. You’ll feel like you’re on a sweet retreat with this delectable scent by Juliette Has A Gun. Miami Shake is a head-turning fragrance. And yes, there are plenty of benefits to smelling goJod. It helps boost your confidence, enhance your mood, evokes memories, and can even help with stress reduction. Perfumes can function as “pick me ups” and acts as an aphrodisiac. Complete your self-care session by spraying yourself down in a signature scent.

Hearing, you smell good, is a compliment thqt just hits different. You’ll feel like you’re on a sweet retreat with this delectable scent by Juliette Has A Gun. Miami Shake is a head-turning fragrance. And yes, there are plenty of benefits to smelling goJod. It helps boost your confidence, enhance your mood, evokes memories, and can even help with stress reduction. Perfumes can function as “pick me ups” and acts as an aphrodisiac. Complete your self-care session by spraying yourself down in a signature scent.

Who says learning history can’t be fun? A good family trip promotes moments for bonding while creating long lasting memories. And it is perfect learning experience for your inquisitive children. If you’re looking for a location rich in Black culture, Michigan is an ideal place for you.

Did you know that a Baptist church located at 441 Monroe, in Greektown, was a major stop along the underground railroad? What about the small town Idlewild that was an escape for Black people during the Jim Crow era? The Great Lakes state is steeped in Black history as the birthplace of many influential moments that have helped shape the world. It is also the birthplace of notable names like Stevie Wonder and Della Reese. Michigan is more than a picturesque escape, it is a landmark for Black music, art, and history.

Did you know that a Baptist church located at 441 Monroe, in Greektown, was a major stop along the underground railroad? What about the small town Idlewild that was an escape for Black people during the Jim Crow era? The Great Lakes state is steeped in Black history as the birthplace of many influential moments that have helped shape the world. It is also the birthplace of notable names like Stevie Wonder and Della Reese. Michigan is more than a picturesque escape, it is a landmark for Black music, art, and history.

Second Baptist Church – A Stop Along The Underground Railroad

Second Baptist Church – A Stop Along The Underground Railroad

From 1836 to 1865, Second Baptist Church served as a “Safe Haven”  for the enslaved seeking freedom in Canada. It was one of the last stops on the Underground Railroad. As a hub, it helped free 5,000 enslaved people. 

From 1836 to 1865, Second Baptist Church served as a “Safe Haven”  for the enslaved seeking freedom in Canada. It was one of the last stops on the Underground Railroad. As a hub, it helped free 5,000 enslaved people. 

Second Baptist Church still has Sunday service to this day. Visitors are encouraged to take a tour of the sacred grounds, guided by the Detroit Underground Historical Railroad Society. Trace the steps of your ancestors while learning about the “Freedom Fighters” who put their lives on the line to break the shackles for their brethren. 

Second Baptist Church still has Sunday service to this day. Visitors are encouraged to take a tour of the sacred grounds, guided by the Detroit Underground Historical Railroad Society. Trace the steps of your ancestors while learning about the “Freedom Fighters” who put their lives on the line to break the shackles for their brethren. 

Idlewild

Idlewild

Nestled in the woods of the Huron-Manistee National Forests, was a small resort town dubbed the “Black Eden of Michigan.” The land, which was surrounded by lakes, provided a getaway for Black people in 1912 at the height of the Jim Crow era. 25,000 tourists from various places like Chicago, St. Louis and Detroit would travel to Idlewild, every year, to experience the hidden gem that boasted two-night clubs. Iconic entertainers like the Black Bottom-born Della Reese, B.B. King, Louis Armstrong and Aretha Franklin performed at the historic Paradise and Flamingo Clubs. 

Nestled in the woods of the Huron-Manistee National Forests, was a small resort town dubbed the “Black Eden of Michigan.” The land, which was surrounded by lakes, provided a getaway for Black people in 1912 at the height of the Jim Crow era. 25,000 tourists from various places like Chicago, St. Louis and Detroit would travel to Idlewild, every year, to experience the hidden gem that boasted two-night clubs. Iconic entertainers like the Black Bottom-born Della Reese, B.B. King, Louis Armstrong and Aretha Franklin performed at the historic Paradise and Flamingo Clubs. 

Sojourner Truth’s Monument

Sojourner Truth’s Monument

Abolitionist and women’s right activist Sojourner Truth’s legacy can be felt throughout Battle Creek, Michigan where she lived until she died in 1883. A 12-foot monument, designed by artist Tina Allen, was resurrected in her honor in Monument Park in 1999. It is a main attraction for visitors. Sojourner Truth is buried in Oak Hill Cemetery. 

Abolitionist and women’s right activist Sojourner Truth’s legacy can be felt throughout Battle Creek, Michigan where she lived until she died in 1883. A 12-foot monument, designed by artist Tina Allen, was resurrected in her honor in Monument Park in 1999. It is a main attraction for visitors. Sojourner Truth is buried in Oak Hill Cemetery. 

James Jackson Museum of African American History

James Jackson Museum of African American History

The James Jackson Museum of African American History can be found in Muskegon Heights, Michigan. This small but mighty time capsule is filled with history about the Black experience with a spotlight on local heroes and figures who’ve impacted American history. 

The James Jackson Museum of African American History can be found in Muskegon Heights, Michigan. This small but mighty time capsule is filled with history about the Black experience with a spotlight on local heroes and figures who’ve impacted American history. 

A picture can transport you to the destination of your travel dreams in an instance. But why imagine, when you can be there in real life? Gas up the car and charge your camera and cell phone because you’re going to need it. With some of the most stunning scenic landscapes, Michigan will look real good on your Instagram timeline. 

These family friendly locations are the perfect Instagrammable sites for the most beautiful pictures, and unforgettable memories.

These family friendly locations are the perfect Instagrammable sites for the most beautiful pictures, and unforgettable memories.

Bond Falls 

Bond Falls 

Prepare to be enchanted by the tranquil sounds of cascading waters at the Bond Fall waterfalls in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. As one of the most photographed waterfalls in western U.P., it will provide the perfect visuals for your feed. 

Prepare to be enchanted by the tranquil sounds of cascading waters at the Bond Fall waterfalls in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. As one of the most photographed waterfalls in western U.P., it will provide the perfect visuals for your feed. 

Bond Falls also boasts a 600-foot boardwalk that is easily accessible and open to your fuzzy family members. Stay for a while and visit the trails, or opt for a cookout with the fam on one of the public grills.

Bond Falls also boasts a 600-foot boardwalk that is easily accessible and open to your fuzzy family members. Stay for a while and visit the trails, or opt for a cookout with the fam on one of the public grills.

Belle Isle Park

Belle Isle Park

Swimming, biking, fishing, paddling; oh my! The serene waters at Belle Isle Park is the ultimate location for a variety of activities and shareable photos. The detroit river will be the backdrop for your selfies at this dynamic family-friendly site. Stop by the Anna Scripps Whitcomb Conservator, which recently reopened its doors after undergoing a multi-million-dollar renovation. And when that’s all done, grab a bite to eat at one of the food trucks known as “StrEats of Belle Isle.”

Swimming, biking, fishing, paddling; oh my! The serene waters at Belle Isle Park is the ultimate location for a variety of activities and shareable photos. The detroit river will be the backdrop for your selfies at this dynamic family-friendly site. Stop by the Anna Scripps Whitcomb Conservator, which recently reopened its doors after undergoing a multi-million-dollar renovation. And when that’s all done, grab a bite to eat at one of the food trucks known as “StrEats of Belle Isle.”

Henry Ford Museum

Henry Ford Museum

Delve into American history at the Henry Ford Museum where there are plenty of photo opps and even more to learn about. With extensive exhibits dedicated to telling the story of the man who revolutionized the transportation industry and the automotive business. The Henry Ford museum will spark your child’s curiosity while you snap away. 

Delve into American history at the Henry Ford Museum where there are plenty of photo opps and even more to learn about. With extensive exhibits dedicated to telling the story of the man who revolutionized the transportation industry and the automotive business. The Henry Ford museum will spark your child’s curiosity while you snap away. 

Muskegon Beaches 

Muskegon Beaches 

White sand beaches are a road trip away. Get an up close and personal view of Lake Michigan and don’t forget to look up because the sunsets are particularly beautiful on Muskegon’s beaches. Snap away as you admire the Muskegon South Breakwater Light. The 63-foot tall pyramidal light tower is the perfect photo bomb for like-worthy family photos.

White sand beaches are a road trip away. Get an up close and personal view of Lake Michigan and don’t forget to look up because the sunsets are particularly beautiful on Muskegon’s beaches. Snap away as you admire the Muskegon South Breakwater Light. The 63-foot tall pyramidal light tower is the perfect photo bomb for like-worthy family photos.

Climbing 94 iron stairs is well worth it to get to the top of Fort Gratiot Lighthouse where you can take the most creative photos of the winding staircase. As Michigan’s oldest lighthouse, it is a major attraction for maritime lovers who appreciate the one-of-a-kind view of the Blue Water Bridge, the mouth of the St. Clair River, Point Edward, Ontario and Lake Huron to the north. Family guided tours are available for a budget-friendly $30 which includes two adults and four children.

Climbing 94 iron stairs is well worth it to get to the top of Fort Gratiot Lighthouse where you can take the most creative photos of the winding staircase. As Michigan’s oldest lighthouse, it is a major attraction for maritime lovers who appreciate the one-of-a-kind view of the Blue Water Bridge, the mouth of the St. Clair River, Point Edward, Ontario and Lake Huron to the north. Family guided tours are available for a budget-friendly $30 which includes two adults and four children.

After visiting some of the most memorable places Michigan has to offer, you and your family will not be able to stop sharing these unforgettable moments for all the years to come. 

After visiting some of the most memorable places Michigan has to offer, you and your family will not be able to stop sharing these unforgettable moments for all the years to come. 

If there’s one thing mothers around the world can agree on, it is that motherhood is hard. It changes you physically and mentally and challenges you in ways you never knew existed. Your body changes, you’re at risk for postpartum depression and suddenly self-care seems like a foreign concept. Especially when you’re dealing with the ever-evolving interests of children and teens.

Gemma Hartley, in Fed Up, describes emotional labor as “all the invisible work that keeps a household running.” Between juggling soccer practice, making doctor’s appointments and deciding what to make for dinner, motherhood is overwhelming at times.

Gemma Hartley, in Fed Up, describes emotional labor as “all the invisible work that keeps a household running.” Between juggling soccer practice, making doctor’s appointments and deciding what to make for dinner, motherhood is overwhelming at times.

For Tawana Jackson, 47, mom of four, nurturing and navigating her teenagers’ newfound interests involve taking it one day at time. From after school jobs to college applications, “I stay as organized as possible,” she explained. “With four kids, there’s always something going on, so I rely on a good calendar, carpooling when I can, and making sure my teen understands the importance of balance. Some days are hectic, but we make it work.”

For Tawana Jackson, 47, mom of four, nurturing and navigating her teenagers’ newfound interests involve taking it one day at time. From after school jobs to college applications, “I stay as organized as possible,” she explained. “With four kids, there’s always something going on, so I rely on a good calendar, carpooling when I can, and making sure my teen understands the importance of balance. Some days are hectic, but we make it work.”

For Keisha Green, boy mom and registered nurse, it’s about simply “listening, advocating and living in the moment.”

For Keisha Green, boy mom and registered nurse, it’s about simply “listening, advocating and living in the moment.”

So how do you identify your children’s interests? “Overall, we want to have kids involved in things that make them happy to be around others and able to make friends,” Bridgette Yee McIntyre, director of the Student Support Unit at the Johns Hopkins Center for Talented Youth told Medium. “When they are wanting to go above and beyond simply because they love the subject and are finding joy in it for the sake of the activity, that’s when it’s a good match.”

So how do you identify your children’s interests? “Overall, we want to have kids involved in things that make them happy to be around others and able to make friends,” Bridgette Yee McIntyre, director of the Student Support Unit at the Johns Hopkins Center for Talented Youth told Medium. “When they are wanting to go above and beyond simply because they love the subject and are finding joy in it for the sake of the activity, that’s when it’s a good match.”

Playing close attention to the activities that bring your child joy are important and essential to helping them navigate what activities to give your attention. Especially when it comes to actives that require funds. Making room for trial and error is essential to helping them weed out which things they like or do not like so encourage them to be independent by trying various hobbies. 

Playing close attention to the activities that bring your child joy are important and essential to helping them navigate what activities to give your attention. Especially when it comes to actives that require funds. Making room for trial and error is essential to helping them weed out which things they like or do not like so encourage them to be independent by trying various hobbies. 

As mentioned by Greene, “listening” to your child is essential when facilitating their interests. Celebrating their achievements not only builds character, but also builds their self-esteem. And if they decided they do not like an activity, it’s important to respect their boundaries and limits.

As mentioned by Greene, “listening” to your child is essential when facilitating their interests. Celebrating their achievements not only builds character, but also builds their self-esteem. And if they decided they do not like an activity, it’s important to respect their boundaries and limits.

Helping nurture your child’s interests is also a method for bonding. Communicating with your little ones fosters a comfortable environment, which encourages them to pursue their hobbies without fear. Asking open-ended questions is a great way to pick your child’s brain and learn more about them as an individual. Allowing your child to explore their independence will automatically lead them to trying new things and meeting new people, all of which broadens their experience. 

Helping nurture your child’s interests is also a method for bonding. Communicating with your little ones fosters a comfortable environment, which encourages them to pursue their hobbies without fear. Asking open-ended questions is a great way to pick your child’s brain and learn more about them as an individual. Allowing your child to explore their independence will automatically lead them to trying new things and meeting new people, all of which broadens their experience. 

Navigating your child’s interests may be challenging at first, but approaching it with an open mind and heart, will lead to understanding and stronger connection. 

Navigating your child’s interests may be challenging at first, but approaching it with an open mind and heart, will lead to understanding and stronger connection. 

Black history month is an opportune time to bond with your child over our history. From civil rights leaders who helped shape the world as we know it, to inventors and groundbreaking politicians, February is dedicated to shining a spotlight on our heroes. With thousands of children’s history books on the market, reading about Black history can be a fun experience that promotes parent-children bonding, education and pride.

The benefits of reading with your children are endless. But for school age children, reading is essential to their cognitive growth. It feeds their imagination, enhances their vocabulary and teaches them empathy. Reading to your child for even a few minutes fosters a learning environment at home, which is the foundation to being a successful student at school. 

The benefits of reading with your children are endless. But for school age children, reading is essential to their cognitive growth. It feeds their imagination, enhances their vocabulary and teaches them empathy. Reading to your child for even a few minutes fosters a learning environment at home, which is the foundation to being a successful student at school. 

According to the Child Mind Institute, “Reading to young children is an important way to help them build language skills. It exposes them to new words and ways of using language. It also helps them learn general information about the world, which makes it easier for them to learn about new subjects once they get to school.”

According to the Child Mind Institute, “Reading to young children is an important way to help them build language skills. It exposes them to new words and ways of using language. It also helps them learn general information about the world, which makes it easier for them to learn about new subjects once they get to school.”

As the mom of a special needs daughter, who is nonverbal, reading is one of our favorite pastimes. She has a vast bookshelf with tons of literature that helps her explore her emotions and some of that is from the simple sound of my voice.

As the mom of a special needs daughter, who is nonverbal, reading is one of our favorite pastimes. She has a vast bookshelf with tons of literature that helps her explore her emotions and some of that is from the simple sound of my voice.

“Even a few minutes of reading together gives you and your child a chance to slow down and connect with each other. And the sensory experience of sitting with you and hearing your voice also engages their brain in a way that makes learning easier.”

“Even a few minutes of reading together gives you and your child a chance to slow down and connect with each other. And the sensory experience of sitting with you and hearing your voice also engages their brain in a way that makes learning easier.”

Keep scrolling for our favorite history books to read during Black History Month and all-year round. 

Keep scrolling for our favorite history books to read during Black History Month and all-year round. 

Black History Books For Children

Black History Books For Children

The ABCs of Black History

The ABCs of Black History

X is for Malcolm X and P is for Power — the alphabet takes on new meaning in this colorful text with vibrant illustrations. This New York Times bestseller explores affirming words and historical events in a pleasant rhyming scheme your child will enjoy.

X is for Malcolm X and P is for Power — the alphabet takes on new meaning in this colorful text with vibrant illustrations. This New York Times bestseller explores affirming words and historical events in a pleasant rhyming scheme your child will enjoy.

Order The ABCs of Black History, by Rio Cortez and illustrated Lauren Semmer, here.

Order The ABCs of Black History, by Rio Cortez and illustrated Lauren Semmer, here.

Order, Little Leaders: Bold Women In Black History

Order, Little Leaders: Bold Women In Black History

With eye-catching illustrations by Vashti Harrison, Dream Big Little One is a vivid and fun read highlighting Black women who’ve made herstory. Showcasing 18 trailblazing Black women, Dream Big Little One will inspire your child to reach for the stars like Mae Jeminson, the first Black women to go to space. 

With eye-catching illustrations by Vashti Harrison, Dream Big Little One is a vivid and fun read highlighting Black women who’ve made herstory. Showcasing 18 trailblazing Black women, Dream Big Little One will inspire your child to reach for the stars like Mae Jeminson, the first Black women to go to space. 

Order, Dream Big Little One: Bold Women In Black History, here.

Order, Dream Big Little One: Bold Women In Black History, here.

ABC Black History & Me

ABC Black History & Me

From Rosa Parks to Amanda Gourman, this modern book covers all the Black history bases. With fast facts and endearing illustrations spanning 170 years of Black history, your little one will learn about the prominent Black moments in time in the cadence of their ABCs.

From Rosa Parks to Amanda Gourman, this modern book covers all the Black history bases. With fast facts and endearing illustrations spanning 170 years of Black history, your little one will learn about the prominent Black moments in time in the cadence of their ABCs.

Order ABC Black History & Me, here.

Order ABC Black History & Me, here.

Happy reading!

Happy reading!

And just like that, we’ve bid adieu to 2024 and welcomed a New Year. Every January, we set new intentions and goals we want to accomplish over the year. Here’s how you can get your children involved. 

Lucinda Cross, mother of three, motivational speaker and life coach, makes setting resolutions a family tradition because it’s something her mother did for her and her siblings. “Now I pass it down to my kids,” she says. “Every year we have a family vision meeting. I sit them down and ask, “What’s one thing you want to get better at this year?” 

Lucinda Cross, mother of three, motivational speaker and life coach, makes setting resolutions a family tradition because it’s something her mother did for her and her siblings. “Now I pass it down to my kids,” she says. “Every year we have a family vision meeting. I sit them down and ask, “What’s one thing you want to get better at this year?” 

Setting Goals

Setting Goals

Setting goals brings clarity to your life. But what is even more important is setting attainable goals to avoid feelings of failure or frustrations. “For my 14-year-old, I make it fun and simple,” explains Cross. “For the older ones, I remind them how small steps lead to big wins. We set goals, break them into steps, and celebrate share what is the reward they want to celebrate the small wins.”

Setting goals brings clarity to your life. But what is even more important is setting attainable goals to avoid feelings of failure or frustrations. “For my 14-year-old, I make it fun and simple,” explains Cross. “For the older ones, I remind them how small steps lead to big wins. We set goals, break them into steps, and celebrate share what is the reward they want to celebrate the small wins.”

What are some easily resolutions you and your child can tackle together? 

What are some easily resolutions you and your child can tackle together? 

A list of resolutions you can tackle easily with your child are: organizing, saving, working out, drinking water, chores, sports goals, grades, visiting loved ones, doing acts of kindness by volunteering, and school attendance even for the ones in college. Some things I have done and still do one of our favorites is family date nights. Whether it’s a movie binge at home, it’s our time to laugh, talk, and just enjoy being together it’s called Unplug. We also set savings goals as a team. Each of us contributes, even in small ways, toward something exciting.

A list of resolutions you can tackle easily with your child are: organizing, saving, working out, drinking water, chores, sports goals, grades, visiting loved ones, doing acts of kindness by volunteering, and school attendance even for the ones in college. Some things I have done and still do one of our favorites is family date nights. Whether it’s a movie binge at home, it’s our time to laugh, talk, and just enjoy being together it’s called Unplug. We also set savings goals as a team. Each of us contributes, even in small ways, toward something exciting.

It’s a way for them to unplug and focus and we all get clear as a family and then I talk about the importance of them creating a vision and goal board for their personal aspirations. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about growing. This is how we keep pushing forward, together as a family.

It’s a way for them to unplug and focus and we all get clear as a family and then I talk about the importance of them creating a vision and goal board for their personal aspirations. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about growing. This is how we keep pushing forward, together as a family.

What are some tips for maintaining resolutions well into the new year?

What are some tips for maintaining resolutions well into the new year?

Sit down with your kids and talk about everyone’s resolutions, including yours and the families as a whole. Create a family chart or tracker to keep tabs on progress, I recommend assigning someone to be the resolution accountability president of the house for the month and everyone takes turns each month to hold a family. meeting keep updates and have a fun reporting system. Turn it into a fun check-in. it’s important to celebrate wins together, use words of affirmation and even incentives, no matter how small, and remind them that it’s about progress, not perfection. Accountability works both ways, and it builds trust and gives everyone responsibility. Posting the resolutions in an area they can each check-in and report and see their progress is important. Since my children are older and most kids are tech savvy use apps like Google Keep or Habitica which is a fun productivity app for free that everyone can use.

Sit down with your kids and talk about everyone’s resolutions, including yours and the families as a whole. Create a family chart or tracker to keep tabs on progress, I recommend assigning someone to be the resolution accountability president of the house for the month and everyone takes turns each month to hold a family. meeting keep updates and have a fun reporting system. Turn it into a fun check-in. it’s important to celebrate wins together, use words of affirmation and even incentives, no matter how small, and remind them that it’s about progress, not perfection. Accountability works both ways, and it builds trust and gives everyone responsibility. Posting the resolutions in an area they can each check-in and report and see their progress is important. Since my children are older and most kids are tech savvy use apps like Google Keep or Habitica which is a fun productivity app for free that everyone can use.

Follow Lucinda, here. 

Follow Lucinda, here.