More Than A Woman: How to Not Lose Yourself to Motherhood
Written By: Free The Vision
As Black women, you often face the pressure to be everything to everyone. You are expected to take care of your children, your partners, your homes, and still maintain a successful career. With all these expectations, it's easy to lose yourself in motherhood and forget about your own identity. But it's essential to remember that you are more than just a mother, you are women with unique interests, passions, and dreams. Here are some tips on how to not lose your identity to motherhood:
Take Time for Yourself: It's crucial to set aside some time for yourself each day. Whether it's 15 minutes of meditation, a relaxing bath, or a quick workout, make sure you're prioritizing your own needs. When you take care of yourself, you are better equipped to take care of others.
Pursue Your Passions: Don't forget about the things that bring you joy. Whether it's painting, writing, or dancing, make time to pursue your passions. It's easy to put your own interests on hold when you're taking care of others, but it's important to remember that your passions are what make you unique and bring fulfillment to your life.
Connect with Other Women: Building a support system of other women can be incredibly empowering. Whether it's through a moms' group or a book club, find a community of women who share your interests and can offer support and encouragement. Having a tribe of women who understand what you're going through can make all the difference in maintaining your identity outside of motherhood.
Remember, being a mother is an essential part of who you are, but it's not the only part. By taking time for yourself, pursuing your passions, and connecting with other women, you can remain full and complete individuals while still being great mothers and partners.
