“My journey to motherhood is quite different than everyone else's. Mine required immediate surrender,” says Sara. “Surrendering this entire journey of motherhood to whatever it is.”

“Whatever it was”, also included something else unprecedented.

“They [her children] do have a lot more access to me and all my faults,” says Sarah. “A lot of the drama that's happened in my life, they've had a front-row seat to it whereas with my parents that wasn’t the case and they really kept it separate. To an extent, that’s a good thing because kids shouldn't be exposed to everything, but I think I would've had a much better perspective on real life if my mom had explained some of those things to me.” - Sarah Lawson

Zuri’s mom isn’t just intentional, she’s headstrong and she told ParentsNeedLove that during her pregnancy she tuned out the noise of parenting advice. Why? Well, because while many moms are well-intending, LaKeisha recognized that motherhood journeys vary and she did not want hers overshadowed by external opinions.

As a number of millennial-aged parents can relate to, good grades were expected without exception, and obedience was enforced without question. There were no ifs, ands, or buts, and things were a far cry from today's widely popular gentle parenting style.